Pack thanks for clarifying things and bringing more insight.

So your W was unfaithful when you were dating.

Cheaters cheat because that's what they do and do not see it as being wrong.

Why do you think you were trying to live a life you couldn't afford?

Pack I am not saying you are not ready to D. Only you know if you are ready. I just don't think you should D to date.

So no truth to be selfish and arrogant?

Just so you know IMO is there is remorse it will be many many years down the road.