I guess we could go round and round trying to determine if she’s a mostly good person with issues who slipped, or she’s a pos who put on an act for 27 years. I think it was the former, but at this point she’s on the dark side and not coming back soon.
I had access to her phone, but not her email. One of the few things she said in the last year which I believe is that she has a m,ale confidant whose name never came up because she knew that contact was inappropriate That is proven by her journal. I guess she could keep in touch by email. There were other little dishonesties over the years but I kind of shrugged them off. We agreed to find out our babies gender at birth, I found out later she knew and pretended to be surprised at their birth.
Do I think things were amazing all the time. No. But The good times far out weighed the less than perfect times. She was a person I respected the most, she got an Ivy League masters degree despite very humble beginnings. We rased 2 kids together.
Oh, stbxw just texts me that she will not be home Friday and Saturday night. I idont know why she just didn’t move out when I asked her to.Hope this increased infatuation bodes well for the negotiations.
