Originally Posted by Pack_19
Originally Posted by SteveLW
Originally Posted by Pack_19
I have set a soft deadline in May 2021 and a hard deadline in August 2021.


Can you explain what this means?


Hi Steve,

The deadline in May meant forgetting any hope about R and lettings things just happen. The deadline in August meant filing myself. The more I think about it the more I think I will just file in May. Not for vengeance or to date other women, because it just does not make sense to remain and feel married to a person who cannot even talk to you. What a bunch of nonsense thoughts...


Thanks Pack. I think this is a good change. If you give up hope of R what is left but to file? If you don't think you'll be ready for that by May (and having a second deadline suggests you may not), then just set a date further out (August). I was confused when you said you had dual deadlines.

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