I told you on day one I had hope for you and I usually don't have hope after reading opening threads.
I guess you hold out hope that because she is married and has three young kids she is not desirable to potential suitors and shell eventually gives up trying to replace you.
Only time will tell.
You have mis-read my posts if you think that is my hope. Quite the opposite actually. I think - if we end up back together - it will be because she chooses me, not because she settles for me. If she finds a "potential suitor" that she feels is better than I am, so be it. Happy trails. The improvements I am making to my life aren't to win her back, but to be a better version of me than I was. If she doesn't want to come along on that journey, then I'll continue on and maybe someone else will later. But I am confident she won't find a better man, whether she realizes it now or later remains to be seen.
