Originally Posted by SaltyDog
There is more than one way to earn respect and show you have balls.


SD, so what are the other ways? What do they look like? For me there are two criteria for commanding respect:

- You act in ways that are worthy of respect
- You do things from a position of strength

If LH's characterization is correct and you want her to fail in finding someone else due to her circumstances so she'll come back to you....I am not sure that is living up to either of those criteria.

LH is really good at giving guidance related to finding your "balls" and earning respect. You'd do well to listen to his advice on that. But in the end it is up to you as to how you approach it.

Last edited by SteveLW; 02/24/21 07:00 PM.
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