Originally Posted by ScottB
Well, I am done with this marriage.

Uuuuummmm. Do you have a choice?
Originally Posted by ScottB
Florida was good, I'm not sure the folks here would be very supportive of my trip. I ended up meeting someone, we played golf, hung out on the beach, I had an unbelievable amount of fun, I don't think a woman has complimented me that much in my life, she was gorgeous and sexy and sharp. It made me recognize my value in an incredible way.

Feels great doesn't it Scotty B
Originally Posted by ScottB
I just want this divorce over with and I want to move on. I'm nervous about the next phase. What my X did to me and my psyche is hard for me to recognize. I'm not sure I'll ever love like I did. I'm not sure I'll ever trust like I did.

Remember that feelings change all the time.
Originally Posted by ScottB
And I will certainly never give my life away to someone else to let them do what they want with.

This^^^^^^^^
Originally Posted by ScottB
I'm a lot angrier with my X than I was. She came by yesterday and to drop something off for my son and I just wanted her to freaking get out. She called me over the weekend for something with my kids and I text her back. I want nothing to do with her, I want the divorce over with so I can move on.

Yep. They become a sense of major annoyance after awhile.

The feelings that you are having are all normal right now.


Last edited by LH19; 02/24/21 03:27 PM.