One thing that may throw people off and have them thinking that the "magic bullet" can be found on this Board are the words Divorce Busting. People come here looking for ways to save their marriage which is what this Board is all about, but unfortunately, many times, you just can't save the marriage...but you have to save yourself. People come here hurt, upset and yes in panic mode because their spouses/partners have lost the plot and have moved out or are acting out. Maybe it's time to think about renaming the Board and yes, updating the policies as well as fresh/new look may help.
I do want to say that many of the forums that you now see out on the net, that some of those creators, were actually members here and went on to set up their own forums. Why? To help others and attempt to put a different spin on what they learned here. Support boards are money makers in many ways.
I post on other Boards as well as this one. They, too, tend to have a lull and then everything picks up again when a new season begins.
Just my two cents.
All this being true - just understand that Job and I are just members like everyone else and do not own or have much input into the way this board runs.
