I also think there are some factors with the pandemic. People are on top of each other. When I came here over a year ago I could post multiple times a day without worry or concern anyone would be over my shoulder. That is not the case for me and I'm sure a lot of other users. Also for some people I think it's slowing down some of the incidents that are going on. Job losses, kids home all the time. Things like that make it difficult. The flip side of that is a lot of us who got here over a year ago our situations have calmed most are entering D proceedings or reconciling. And I noticed just in general, even when I first got here, that as people move beyond crisis either entering into divorce proceedings or reconciling they post less and less and eventually fall of the face of the planet.
Wayfarer, this all makes perfect sense, and I agree with you.
I don't expect anyone to stick around, once they have divorced, and want to move on with their life. Most people have little spare time to devote to a board. However, I always appreciate those who desire to pay forward whatever lessons they gleaned during their own experience. People tend to listen to those who have similar experiences.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
