A week has pased since I sent XH my email, outlining what I want to happen with our house. It was pretty darn clear. Today I sent my follow up communications. Here is his response:
XH: "Received your email. Not really sure what you mean. The details are too vague. I also invested in the house with years of going to sea. Not sure what to do right now. I miss D4 and also will need to have a place to spend time with her".
I'm glad he finally replied. I can't believe he thinks it was vague; not sure what I meant? Guess I should of used ALL CAPS for the statement "TAKE OVER THE HOUSE".
Unreal, but it could have been worse. At least he's using his words.
XH: "I also invested in the house with years of going to sea". Yes, you did. You chose that job, that company, that schedule, and I took care of the home, the yard, the pool, the rental property, made sure bills where paid on time. I was the homemaker, and raised our daughter BY MYSELF since her birth, while you were at sea for half the year, and then YOU had an affair BEFORE you went to sea, DURING your time at sea, and AFTER. Who knows went it all started or how much you spent to go to another country.
Xh: "Not sure what to do right now". Huh? Think man! Yes or no.
Xh: "I miss D4..." Funny. He hasn't reached out since Dec 25th.
Xh: "and also will need to have a place to spend time with her". Not my problem. You broke it, you fix it.
I need to give this a break so I don't respond reactively.
Last edited by CanBird; 02/24/2108:07 AM.
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