I wonder if the technology is too old, but then again I am old and things pass me by so quickly.
Maybe people don't use online forums anymore.
As far as getting new people to post - I do think UBB forums appear dated these days - they've been around since the 90s and the look/layout hasn't really changed a ton with the times. Someone browsing thru could likely see the layout of the board, and to be honest the look of divorcebusting.com, and move on elsewhere.
Originally Posted by sandi2
My other concern or question is why some people who are in the thick of things in their sitch, go for days or weeks without posting anything on their thread... Maybe they can't handle criticism, or they think we are too harsh.
I fit in that category of going for days or weeks without posting, and it is just because I don't feel like I have much in the way of "updates" in my current situation. In the beginning it felt like I was suffocating with anxiety and needed all the help I could find, whereas now I am just trying to put into practice all that I've learned here and elsewhere and continuing to grow. While I can say things are probably the best they've been since BD, I also know they are precarious and could change at any given moment, so it isn't like there is much to share.
