STBXW talked to D18 for the first time in three days, after she snuck out to went to see OM last night.
Man, I am/was so naive. First all the warning signs were there that she was having and affair. First she was going out in the afternoon only. My buddy asked me does she carry a lot of make up with her? I said yes. He said hotel then a shower to freshen up. D'oh
I then remarked that her underwear never shows up in the laundry, or hanging in the bathroom like previously. He said she gives him to OM as a trophy. W T F.
Meeting with L tomorrow. She wants to file right away, but STBXW is deep in fog. i'll agree to expedite , but want some favorable terms. There are a lot of things I could do to delay process, but really want this over as soon as possible. I also am going to ask L about married filing separate because her finances bookkeeping is a mess.
After thorough reading of the boards, STBX seems to be one of the worst WW without any substance abuse issues. She's just flat out crazy We were in limernce when I first met her, but we were both single. This is a whole other level, like NASA diaper astronaut level, amybe the affiar turns up the heat, but she wants to go legit ASAP.
