Nick,

I will say that there were times where I lamented my W's absence and worried about her actions. As time passed and I became more detached, my perspective became different.

Her being gone gives you freedom in your home, embrace it. Do what you want, eat what you want, watch what show you want, and enjoy the peace and quiet.

Forget "co-parenting", just be a parent. Drop your expectations.

Detach. GAL. Switch your focus to you and not to your W.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.