You can fix the CVS thing. And if you can't as the the one with the health insurance stbxh can. It's pretty simple. You can do it on the app or the website. Or if you're more analog you can go into the store, and tell them to change your notifications right at the pharmacy. It's up to you guys to change the notifications. If they say they can't change it because your CVS card thing is hooked up for the both of you you ask for the whole things to be removed and get a new CVS card thing with just you and your information on it. I had to go through this with every single rewards card when I split with ExH. Certain stores have certain capabilities technology-wise and some can only start you over from scratch, but CVS recently revamped their discount system as did Walgreens so everything should be simple enough to remove right from your phone. And I'm the one who provides insurance in my household and I'm not forced into getting the notifications. Technically it could fall into a HIPAA violation should he go pick your prescription up. My stepdaughter's mother uses CVS and only CVS for my stepdaughter's prescriptions. I have never once gotten a notification. If this is something specific to your CVS I'd suggest calling corporate. And as a last resort you could move your prescriptions to a different pharmacy. With a divorce pending you might want to contact your HR department and see if there is a pharmacy that is preferred with their insurance plan. Maybe you'll have to pay out and extra $10-20 a month until the D is finalized, but then stbxh doesn't get notices and he doesn't have to text you unnecessarily.
As far as the guy goes. If he's stalking you get an injunction. Problem over. If you are feeding us hyperbole on how things are going with that man because he's pursuing you and you're not feeling it, stop, and then have a calm, to the point conversation with the man. If he doesn't take the hint have one more calm conversation that let's him know if doesn't back off that you will be seeking an injunction.
