Thank you all. Yesterday, I went to visit my sister from the curb. Just a quick hello, but I got out. Today, D and I drove with no destination in mind. We ended up in a nice area of Los Angeles and went to an estate sale in a huge mansion. It was fun to walk the rooms and see what was available. After that, we took a drive up to Griffith observatory, we were not alone in that destination, a lot of people were out in the sunshine. It was nice to see masks and that people were adhering to keeping six ft apart. After that, we drove some more and came home.
H was out, I saw on social media he was at the beach with friends. It made me sad, he would have had fun with us girls. But, this is his choice. When he came home, no greetings to either of us, he just went into the room and closed the door. I realize, I would have been so upset had I stayed home. I am so glad to have gotten out.
Cardinal, I will take your advice to heart. I will do some things around here that bring me joy.
I wonder if anyone who had a IHS, ever wondered if the person instigating was thinking against a D. Almost two years ago, he put me on this path and here we are still under the same roof. If so, how did they realize this and what did they do?
I obviously don’t want a D, and I would love to begin a new relationship together, but will I know? Will he approach, or will this be something I have to approach him and ask, if this is something he still wants?
