Journaling/Venting. Ok, so now it is Sunday night, about 630. Stbxw has had zero interaction with D18 yesterday and today. Saturday stbxw was gone the whole day and night, I was asleep when she got here, and today the same. Stbxw just texts D18 and says she won’t be home for dinner. I ask D18 if she knows where her mother is and she doesn’t. Idc where she is, but her daughter should know.
I came home 3 am Saturday morning from two weeks away, and the WiFi was down. Later, before she goes out, I ask stbxw about it, it’s been down for days, but she never called to have it fixed. D18 has been doing remote school over cell.
It is so incredibly frustrating to try to co parent when the other parent has checked out. I got more accomplished for D18s future when I was away than stbxw did when she was here working only 3.5 days a week. I’m asking L if I should file taxes separately because I know her start up business is a mess. Stbxw still does not have an accountant and has not made any estimated tax payments.
My mind is still adjusting to the fact that the person who loved me for years is now cruel and neglectful of her daughters.I was better at detaching when I was away, but stbxw still looks the same, but could not be a more different person. If I was not experiencing this I would not believe it.
