Let me get this straight. Your WW spent $3,000 on a Gucci bag but hasn't paid her L?
Unless she's got the expensive wardrobe to go with it, she going to look pretty stupid showing off a Gucci. Call me cheap, but I can think of a lot of things to spend $3,000 on, and it's not a purse.
Here's the thing, Steve. She will try to pressure you by guilting you into giving her that money. I don't care what you said before she took off to meet that man.........it was cancelled out by her actions, b/c you were deceived. You don't owe her squat! Don't listen to any of her garbage, and don't respond.
((hugs))
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!