Ah, wooba, I'm so sorry H seems to be spiraling and his behavior is directly affecting your sons. I can't imagine how hard it would've been to hear that report. From what I've read of your boys, it does seem very clear that they will be looking out for each other as you are looking out for them too. Thank goodness they have each other, and that they have you to guide them through this and reassure them that it is not about them! I think they are on their way to being responsible, caring, loving, righteous men. They are already showing those qualities in the way they care for each other. ((wooba))
