Originally Posted by Wooba
Maybe I need to speed up the D process and take a less than ideal deal now so I won't have to possibly end up paying child support to him if he loses his job!!?

Hi Wooba,

Wow, I'm so sorry you're going through this. I can't imagine having to discuss alcoholism with my kids so young, and how hard it must be to hear your child was in pain and you're powerless to do anything. smirk Re: locking in child support now, where I live, child support can be updated anytime circumstances change--e.g., when someone loses their job or gets a raise. It might be wise to double-check with your L if it works the same or differently near you.