Oh, and since I am on holiday stbxw called me on Valentine’s Day because our refrigerator broke and she can’t get it fixed herself, because, you know, I have to do everything. So I talked to her a couple minutes and at the the end of the call she told me Happy birthday, which I guess was nice. It made me remember all the great stuff she did for me on Valentine’s Day, and it made me kinda sad.
Did you fix her frig?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!