Thanks for your responses Harvey, Sandi and OnlyBent. I dont have the energy to respond to everything right now but i just wanted to say im grateful for finding this board. It really does help to get opinions from people have been through similar things and to interact with like minded people. I really appreciate all you guys that take some of your time and try help out, its much appreciated and helps get a different perspective.


Me 32, W 24
T 6, M 3
No kids
BD: Aug 2020
OM: Jan 2021
Wife to file soon