Mark, if you don’t mind me asking, what were the circumstances that led your daughter to stay with you. How is she coping? Is she in IC? Obviously she is less than thrilled her mother has a PA, but how did she find out?
I am in a similar sitch and I have 2 daughters who don’t know about their mothers PA. It’s a real mess because D18 is applying to college and I could use some co parenting help from stbxw which I am not getting.
My D was given the option to go with her M, but they have not got on for at least the last 2 years, constantly arguing -(i know normal teenager stuff) M told her about the PA on BD, although my D had picked up her M phone while she was in the shower and seen messages from the PA (she had been suspicious for a while) to be fair i don't think her M really wanted her as it would limit the time she could have with the PA, she is an absolute gem now her M has gone, although it does concern me how much she does know?
