So what you are saying is that your WW has not forfeited very much due to her cheating. She gets to keep her affair, and she gets the benefits of marriage.
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ever since BD I have been GAL-ing with my friends and S6 almost every weekend. I do like spending time outdoors so there have been plenty of hikes, beach/mountain visits, riding, surfing, theme parks, etc.
That is great, and so important.
I encourage you to read everything in Cadet's welcome post. Then think about setting boundaries. If you are going to live under the same roof with her, you must have boundaries in place to protect your self respect.
IMHO, the LBH needs a plan of action. He needs to set small goals for himself. Otherwise, you rot away with all the mess going on under your nose.
I hope you'll give us more details, and hope you'll post often.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
