I wonder how long it will take her to get curious and want to reach out but i guess it doesn't really matter anymore, need to change the way i think about things.
Her reaching out to you b/c of curiosity is not the goal. What I mean is that her reaching out to you b/c she's curious, often includes her taking your emotional temperature to see how attached you are. I'm not saying that's a bad thing, just as long as you don't make anything out of it, and see it as a temp check.
The final goal, is her reaching out due to her remorse.......and HUMILTIY. I don't think a wayward can recover without humility. It's very hard for a wayward to reach that point, b/c they are so full of themselves. You can't be humble until you lose the sense of entitlement and flush all that selfishness down the drain.
The bad thing is that WW's are usually pretty good at acting and manipulation. Combine those skills with the LBH's hopes.........well, you might see how they could have a false start to reconciliation. It happens.
Remember this...........waywardness is a heart condition. The heart becomes cold and hard. If you wonder if she's being genuine, watch her behavior, her speech, and her attitude. If these three consistently match, there's your answer. If she says one thing but her attitude says another........it's not real.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
