I don't actually see a lot of reconciliations, even as much as we did a few years ago, and I think it has to do with the attitudes and mindset of people in our world today. I will spare you and not get off into that subject. But I will say that people have been so influenced by the world's propaganda, that successful R appears less often.......or so it seems.
Sandi, I am actually interested in your thoughts on this. Reading some of the older threads a while back, I noticed that a lot of posters recommended being their WAS/WS's best friend without expectation. There seemed to be some success with this method. From what I see now, that strategy has been eschewed for a more kick them to the curb and get on with your life, you need respect before attraction type of strategy.
Do you think the change in advice has adapted because of the change in attitudes and mindset of people today as opposed to even 10 years ago? Are the WAS/WS getting more disrespectful? Or is the lack of reconciliations because there has been that change in advice?
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"
