I felt bad so I got her something and snuck it into her car at work, flowers etc. she caught me and the kids doing it.. My son was so pissed he got a pair of scissors and cut her card she gave me In half.. This is hurting me, hurting my kids
Oh Steve, please block your ex and get more therapy a.s.a.p. YOUR behaviors keep putting you and your kids through trauma and difficulties. That's probably hard to see from where you are, easy to say "It's her!" and "They don't get it." You need space and support to get free of your trauma bond. For motivation read May's post, read Joseph's thread, and post here daily for support. Please--we care and want you better. (:
