Steve_Letting go pt2

[JosephS]

First you keep saying you’re legally covered. My lawyer didn’t/doesn’t want me saying very much to my ex unless I run it past her first. And the reasoning behind it is because my ex is similar to yours. Though even mine on occasion has moments of clarity and admits she’s screwed the kids up enough. You just skim over the legal issues and say you’re covered. You’re not. You’re gonna do something out of emotion that’s gonna cause you to lose your kids. And if that happens sorry Steve, there won’t be anyone around to say how wonderful and forgiving you are.

You keep saying your done. You’re never going back. You’ve learned your lesson. You disappear for a few days, come back with some bombastic story that shows your broken record of a relationship. You’re speeding at a light pole saying you’re gonna hit the breaks but expect the pole to get out of your way.

You’re not acting like a good father. Period. Maybe you where once upon a time, but allowing your kids to go through this is flat out disgusting. File for for divorce. Stop feeling bad for a trash can of a human and move on. Stop talking about her around your kids. Stop making life about her around your kids. Your kids are gonna grow up and think this is normal or ok.

Do you not have any family or friends that know the truth? How is anyone that’s supporting you saying this is ok? It’s not. It’s genuinely scary. And it’s not just your ex that’s acting scary. You fly off the handle at every interaction that doesn’t go your way. How can you keep falling over and over and over again for the same stuff? It’s mind numbing to see this.

I’m gonna give you some advice my father gave me that you obviously need to hear. You are the company you keep. What does that say about you Steve?

Steve, it’s time to grow up, accept reality, be an actual father (btw that doesn’t require you to married to her to be an actual father) and move the hades on.

I’m not sorry if this came off harsh. It disturbing as anything you are more than willing to put your kids through this because you’d rather continue to have these nightmare insane blow outs with a serial cheater who doesn’t give a rats @$$ about you than no contact at all.

I really don’t know what else to say. At this point I’m praying you’re just trolling everyone here because you’re bored or lying about 90% of this because you need attention. Because that would actually be better than what your poor kids are going through. What you as their father are allowing them to go through. Take some responsibility, your ex can only do what YOU allow her to do.