"I probably shouldn’t have but I sent her a text that said this.
“I am done, you come to my house with a I love you husband card and gifts for the kids and then you leave to LA, if you loved us where the F are you? You call when your boyfriend is a jerk and you miss me, when the kids are bad, when your car is broke but otherwise you call me your ex husband? Please I am dead serious leave me alone. Stop the games. "
Steve, why you do not come to the board before you take action is beyond me. We have tried and tried to get you to come here so we can give you guidance BEFORE you act.
The above text is too wordy. Imagine if you did this:
"Leave me alone. From now on use this coparenting app to communicate me ONLY about the kids."
AND THEN BLOCK HER CALLS AND TEXTS.
She doesn't listen to you. I wouldn't doubt if she has already called or text since you told her "Please don't". WHY ARE YOU SAYING PLEASE???
Sorry we've heard this before: "And that was that.
This is hurting me, hurting my kids and hurting our family. And I keep tolerating it and being mr nice guy. Even her card and texts repeat how nice and forgiving I am. I just snapped. I am sick of being the mr get screwed over guy. I hope she really takes the hint and stops trying. I will not be interacting with her anymore at any level. Every time I do it just makes it worse. And she plays her games. F that."
The next time she sends you a card or gift I expect you to spring into action again. She has you by the tail. And will continue to do so as long as you allow her.
"I AM REALLY DONE THIS TIME." are empty words because you've said this many times in your threads, and I would guess probably 100s of times in reality.
Steve, I really hope you will consider getting advice before reacting to her in the future.....but I doubt you will.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
