Total newbie looking for encouragement

[Mumin]

Hey luck, sorry to hear what you are going through!
You are getting good advice, so just some notes.
Please take your time to read through things. Get a copy of Divorce Remedy. Ask if you don’t understand
It took me ~3 weeks to get my head around things, then another few weeks to make it habit.

Also, since you might be reading other threads (in itself very good to do) some recent comments may come across as Divorce positive. Though I would say basically everyone here are against divorce in general, in some situations it is simply the best course for everyone involved.
On this note I would recommend ‘Love must be a tough’, especially if you are Christian.