WW brings me a rose and a card that says “I’ll love you husband” she wrote in it, “nobody understands me the way you do” she was supposed to be bringing the kids gifts. I felt bad so I got her something and snuck it into her car at work, flowers etc. she caught me and the kids doing it an laughed. I went back to the ILs house to put her key back and I noticed she had got cards and flowers from other dudes. I just said wow, wtf. Didn’t even confront her on it just left back to my place. Wow I felt super stupid. She calls me later and thanks me for the gift, told me her manager saw her “Ex husband” putting things in her car. 2 hours ago I was a good husband. She calls me for a check engine light on her car and I just was like, “what happened? The dudes sending you cards and flowers can’t fix your car?” She hung up on me. Lol. Then she texts me later with some matchmaking thing that shows her and me as her match and she writes “well he does tolerate my ass the most”. Dude I lost it. My kids are even pissed off at this point. I probably shouldn’t have but I sent her a text that said this.
“I am done, you come to my house with a I love you husband card and gifts for the kids and then you leave to LA, if you loved us where the F are you? You call when your boyfriend is a jerk and you miss me, when the kids are bad, when your car is broke but otherwise you call me your ex husband? Please I am dead serious leave me alone. Stop the games. She wants me to take her out for our anniversary for dinner and said if I don’t she will make plans I said I’m not going to. I’m so beyond sick of this. I shouldn’t have been so negative but I just got tired of this bullshiz. My son was so pissed he got a pair of scissors and cut her card she gave me In half. She has been telling her mother and everyone else she will come back to me “eventually” but for now she is having fun. Nope fuc all that. I told her please don’t come over, don’t call, don’t text. Email only from now on I’m sick of this.
And that was that.
This is hurting me, hurting my kids and hurting our family. And I keep tolerating it and being mr nice guy. Even her card and texts repeat how nice and forgiving I am. I just snapped. I am sick of being the mr get screwed over guy. I hope she really takes the hint and stops trying. I will not be interacting with her anymore at any level. Every time I do it just makes it worse. And she plays her games. F that.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
