I'd like to add that I'm sorry that this is probably my first post in your thread. I do read both LBH and LBW threads, but I feel like I offer a better perspective to LBHs. I read the situations with LBWs and it just seems like most of the WAHs don't deserve the women posting here. Most of the LBHs, myself included, need to grow from this experience. That's probably not entirely true. Everybody needs to grow from this experience, but maybe I can offer a better perspective to LBHs.