I don't see how this is any better than some of the stuff you've scolded Tom on in his thread. Rash generalizations. I realize you are still hurting, and I won't bother picking apart some of the stats you've posted, but it might do you some good to get away from the radical feminist spaces. Yes, men and women are different. Unfortunately, men are generally more violent. However, it can be harmful when you start stereotyping groups of people--whether it's based on gender, race, political or religious affiliation, sexual orientation, etc.; whether it's faulty or not.
I choose to believe in the goodness of people... in the goodness of each individual--until proven otherwise. The majority of people that I've met, once I've gotten to know them, have been good people--no matter what "group" they came from. I try to never lose sight of that whenever I'm inclined to start prejudging a group of people.
I hope you are put in a position to be around good men. Or put yourself in a position to meet them. They are out there. I hope you live a long and happy life with one of those men.
