Originally Posted by Ace_32
It is very tough to do NC but i guess it starts becoming easier when you realise that she doesnt want to hear from you anymore and responds harshly most of the time.


That’s right Ace, keep judging her by her actions, in fact I have started doing this with everyone. It’s pretty scary at first because you really have to start taking stock of your life, who is there for you and who you want to keep. My STBXW and I had a group of friends we hung out with regularly. They say they would stay neutral but I rarely get invited to things anymore, and haven’t had one offer of help since I’ve been in quarantine. They have said they’re more upset about the hit to their social life than actually being compassionate about the impending D. F em I say. My true friends have been there like you wouldn’t believe.

Anyway, keep going Ace, sounds like you’re doing ok mate.


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