I never said you needed a man. IMO you need therapy.
I’m sorry you feel judged. Maybe I’m misinformed or under the wrong impression what this board is about. I was under the impression it was about saving yourself and becoming the best version of you and the effect of that would be saving your marriage. I’m glad your closest friends have seen the major changes, but are they seeing what’s real or what you want them to see? Because the impression you leave here is you just keep doing the same thing over and over again hoping for a different result.
One moment you’re on a dating site looking for a friend, than a booty call, than you fall for a man. Yet you stay on the dating apps even though you ran through the gambit.
Again I could be wrong, I don’t know you at all and only through this forum. But the impression you leave me on here is you have very little self respect and only get your self worth through attention of others. Thus why you ignore the good advise here, brag about how good you look, how many men are paying attention to you, all while still wanting your ex back.
I’m gonna go a head and wish you nothing but the best, but bow out gracefully at this time. I think the others are right when they say you come on here when you need attention. You don’t seem willing to do what it takes to fix yourself.
Seriously good luck, I hope you get therapy and don’t just jump into another relationship hoping to mask the issues you have. I will be rooting for you and wish you nothing but the best, but I don’t think it’s worth commenting anymore.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11