Even though we have User IDs and passwords, that does not mean that this is a safe place to provide "hints/suggestions" as to how to connect the dots to contact/meet each other. All walks of life come here and can read what is posted. Unfortunately, this site is not like others whereby you can determine who sees what and when, like friends or the public. Once something is posted, it becomes public for anyone to see.
If anyone has an issue with the Board policies, I would suggest that you contact Michele and discuss the issue(s) with her staff. I'm very sorry that this particular site does not offer off line access to the posters who come here. I do not want to see anyone put back on moderation for banned for attempting to connect off line.
Just my two cents.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.