Please, please be very careful in suggesting that others on the forum be in contact with you and vice versa off line. When coming to the forum, one of the policies is not to share personal information, which includes contact information. The policies are not mine nor Cadet's, but the policies that Michele set up after we had some issues with people contacting others from the Board off line. I do not want to see you banned from this site because of "hints/suggestions" on how to contact each other off line, especially when you need the forum now more than ever.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
