Please correct me if I am wrong, but is this the son that graduated sometime ago who you threw a party for that you and your son were hurt and disappointed that your STBXH didn’t come even though he promised? Weren’t you leaving hints in his mail because you didn’t want your son to be disappointed? Maybe I’m misremembering, but didn’t your STBXH help your son with so much growing up? Why does he hate him now?
Also, I thought you had to go get your son from college because he made some seriously bad decision that was potentially life altering? I could be misremembering that too.
What I really don’t understand is you refuse to go to a therapist because of a bad experience but your spouse was abusive and you won’t let go.
I’m also confused how you see CWarriors ex stepped over a line by going into his backyard without his permission to get her stuff (she absolutely crossed a boundary) but you thinks it’s perfectly ok to show up to someone’s house you really don’t know even a little bit.. naked.
You’ve been posting for a year give or take and have made really no progress. Heck you could make an argument you’re worse off. It really has turned into what’s going to happen next, stay tuned.
You really do need therapy. You’ll say you’re making progress at your own pace and you’re doing this or that or will ignore, but you really aren’t. Good luck KC. I do wonder how much longer you’ll post if you post at all. You didn’t just get a 2x4, you got a rail road tie, but it was spot on. You do have so so many inconsistencies in your thread.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
