Well done. It's not your responsibility to assist him in getting a place to rent. He's the one that filed for a divorce, left and wants out. He's the one that needs to amend his 2019 taxes and do his 2020 taxes. Again, not your circus. He's a grown man who is working. If he has to go live with in the state where his parents live, then so be it. Let them take care of their man/child. I think they all deserve one another.
I don't see this man doing one thing for you. In fact, he's done everything to make your life a living h2ll on earth. He really is out to lunch.
Stay the course and don't get sucked in with his "poor me" attitude. He really is hoping that playing "the poor me" song will tug at your heart strings. After all he's done, the only thing I would do for him is pray for him. If he's not making enough money, then he can either take on additional work or locate an efficiency apartment and live modestly for a while. He really does remind me of my xh. That "poor me" song was played quite frequently when mine left home too.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
