Hi dmrafa. Welcome aboard, and I encourage you to post as much as you can, especially during your initial days here. I am sorry to hear about your problems, and the IHS.
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IHS is extremely difficult as we still share meals together, she does the cooking, laundry, etc. and we also hang out with our friends (and S6's friends) together. They have no idea what is actually going on and perhaps think that we are just going through a typical husband-wife phase.
May I ask, how the separation is distinguished? Do the two of you share the same bed? Do you still have sex with her? What has actually changed as a result of IHS?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
