I don't want a divorce II NEW THREAD Pt 28

[MrBrside]

KK,

I'm going to be brutal. ( hopefully one day you will realise this is for you and not to be cruel )

You are more than broken... You need serious mental health assistance.

Everything you write is just, well nuts... usually contradicting what you wrote a few posts prior, which leaves the rational people who try to assist you shaking their heads in disbelief.

I read your posts and often wondered what could be your issue... I know various things have been posted about NPD, BPD etc.. I am wondering if you are split personality.

You take too many 2x4s to be NPD IMO.. NPD dont like critacism / being told you are wrong and usually run.. You are still here, reading all the stuff people write (although ignoring it )

The other thought has crossed my is you love the attention.... and update your threads accordingly to get that attention fix from the people who want to help you. Much like millions of people who are addicted to "likes" on social media, you love to see the replies you get from the people who try to help you..

Why would i put this...??

Because frankly, your posts are off the rational scale. Like really out there.I think most people here see that, but just want to help. I dont recall any other female post posting the kind of stuff you do, and all your updates just have that "shock" / "drama" factor.. As in, i dont think i've ever known anybody have the drama you have in there life. Its way out there, not normal and very unhealthy IMO.. Which makes me wonder if this "drama" is real or just your way of getting 15 people peoples attention who try to help you..

The red flag for me was the abuse form the ex hubby - which you mentioned like over 12 months after wanting him back. I find that out there strange, regardless of how you try and justify it.

Other things like the inimate details of going to the pilots house naked.. You really didnt need to go into that much detail on a public forum. We all know what consenting adults get up to.. But you topped it off with the details.. basically a good "shock" factor...Rational people read stuff like this and think WTF ! - seriously !

To put into context..
I want hubby back.. , I dont want IC, I'll start dating.. I'm dating but want hubby back, BTW, although i want hubby back FYI hubby abused me , I'm broken, ex hubby abused me and son, i dont want a divorce, i'm dating, I don't want IC, I'm broken, I want hubby back, i'll stop dating, i dont want IC, i'm dating, I want hubby back, i'm dating, I'm still broken, i'm dating, i'm trying to delay Divorce, i'm dating.

All your updates "scream" attention.. i do wonder if you are actually looking for help - or just the attention fix, as loads of people have tried to help you, yet you ignore that advice and go on to post even more "out there" updates.

If this genuinly is you life you have my sympathies.. But you do yourself no favours... only you can change it.. But its a crazy crazy life you have created.