I don't want a divorce II NEW THREAD Pt 28

[may22]

KC.

Wayfarer wrote an incredible post to you a week ago.

You completely ignored it and posted about a long conversation you had with your ex about taxes and worried that you were being too nice.

Then you just posted about two other men you have been dating and sending you flowers.

Come on, KC. STOP. LISTEN. PLEASE.

You have options here. But first you have to stop doing more of the same. More of the same never serves you.

What I'm reading is just more of the same. It is heartbreaking to me. Truly. Can you please respond to Wayfarer? Or me, for that matter? What is one thing you can do differently, today, either for self care or starting on the path of self work?

It feels like you're bouncing from one extreme to the other. Last week you were freaking out about the idea of being in your home alone. You said the walls were closing in on you and you didn't want to turn into Jack Nicholson. That you'd tried literally every possible at-home GAL option and nothing was working. Now you're looking forward to down time this weekend. Can you help us understand what is going on in your head?