So (facepalm) men keep sending flowers to my office... that's keeping the staff talking... and my boss... UGH.

One guy sent flowers twice and I thanked him profusely for such a gesture but he never asked me out again. He had texted me something about being out of my league... blah blah blah but I had never judged him. Frankly we just truly didn't have ANYTHING in common. And, I'm not chasing men anymore... I was the last to contact thinking he would ask me out again. Eh... no worries.

Then another guy sent flowers on Monday. We had only gone out 3 times and its been over 2 weeks since I've seen him due to snow and I was not feeling well last weekend with a stomach bug. So he sent the flowers as an early Vday gift and to tell me to feel better soon. We had plans to eat at this unique restaurant in my town on Saturday.

He texts me to say that its booked on Saturday could we do another day. I just said we could pick a different place for Saturday as I'm not available on Friday. Now truth be told I'm not doing anything on Friday but work has been very busy lately and I like my Friday night down time. I was not eluding that I had other plans AND he knows work has been busy and I often work till 7pm.

Well dinner plans on Saturday turned into a text ... are you dating others??? I know its not my business to ask... WAIT??? WHAT??? Uhm, for starters we have been out 3 times. I haven't seen him in 2 weeks. In a text message no less.

So I stated that I'm not actively dating others but I am still not divorced (he has known this from date 1 and he says not an issue for him) and I'm not looking into anything rushed or pushed.

I proceeded to get dumped via text message... LMAO. He's telling me what an amazing person I am and how he wasn't looking to date during COVID because he was not comfortable in restaurants or bars but I was worth the risk. UHM, HELLO... you were on a dating site (double facepalm). He went on about how comfortable I made him and how great I am. He apologized and wished things were different.

I said "I hear you". "no need to apologize for how you feel".

He kept on texting.....

I did not respond. Peace out...

I'm not upset. I'm not sad. Well... I was looking forward to catching up with him over dinner since we had not seen each other in 2 weeks, but I'll survive.

Guess I've got the whole weekend for down time. Go me!!!