You have so much good advice on your thread! I just want to say I'm so happy things are all working out and second/third/fourth the recommendation to be direct.
This especially:
Originally Posted by Gerda
There is no point in leaving things in his court. Use the agreement you already have and follow it, no grey areas, no tentative fears. He is not your king. He's just a guy who owns half your house and half your debts, and you have to make a deal to own it all.
YES. You got this. Just like you have taken care of everything else like a boss. The arecas, the job, the house. Imua!
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
