I am not detached, Pack19 part4

[Pack_19]

Honestly pack, I think she is so vindictive because you are still so attached. She still feels trapped and smothered in a way and she’s just going to be mean and vindictive because of that.

I imagine when you truly let go, she will not be so vindictive and mean, and coparenting will eventually happen.

Her vindictiveness is her trying to cut that rope you still have tied to her

Hi Ginger1, thanks for the comment. I guess she feels as if I do not let her free from a M were she was not happy. I dont want a W that is tied to me by any kind of rope, I want a W that sees me and wants no other man in her life. I want someone who will value and love me more than I thought possible. I will work on dropping that rope and improving my GAL.

I guess knowing there were no major issued to explain how it all exploded so badly makes me think I am not trying to trap her in something rotten but just trying to show her we had very unfortunate circumstances.

I dont know what is wrong with me honestly. I really love this woman and I have many reasons to believe we could change and be happy and all I have done since this began is pressure her and remind her of all we have and how much I love our kids. I need to get a life and do it now, and a good one, one that allows me to grow again!

Thanks Ginger1!