Originally Posted by BL42
Originally Posted by CWarrior
Hi BL42,

I hear you on Valentine's Day. Have you considered.. a light-hearted date (I joke that Valentine's Day is the easiest day for men to get dates).. organizing a singles' event (e.g., socially-distanced in a park).. organizing a kids' event (e.g., making and exchanging digital photos of cards).. charity work showing love to others, an activity you love (e.g., walking, hiking, cycling, skiing).. or self-love making that full, wonderful dinner you would've made for others? I'll have my kids, but these all crossed my mind. Take care!

All great ideas...thanks for the suggestions! If I can't find others' to spend time with I'll make it a point to go on a hike and/or skiing by myself. Not necessarily worked up about Valentine's Day per se, just an example of when friends have plans and can't include me. I did go to a Super Bowl party yesterday and brunch with friends last weekend, so it's not as if I'm always on my own.


BL! I like this. Focus on what you can control (yourself, not others)!


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