This morning I had H on the phone again. He wants to come for a few days and is angry that I will not be in the house when he will be here. He thinks many people who divorce still live together under one roof. There was enormous anger again. Is this the right decision to do this and not be here while he's here? The kids don't like this either just because they fear how he will react to them all week. But then I think it is better to do this now, there will come times when they have to go to the other country alone to visit him and then if there is something wrong I cannot immediately do something which is not the case now. I won’t be far away from them.

Can I send him something so that I can explain to him why I cannot or should I leave it this way?

There is the fear again unfortunately.

Last edited by Eagle3; 02/09/21 09:36 AM.