It's a mixed bag. On my weeks with the kids I only spent time with them. That's fulfilling and I love it. On the weeks without the kids I've tried to get together with friends as much as possible but it's been difficult at times with COVID and with others' couples plans. For example, this week I'm "off" but it's Valentines Day weekend (and 1yr BD anniversary as it happens), so many already have plans which aren't conducive to a a third wheel. I've been fulling the downtime with house improvements, which as helped. I need to do better with exercise - I haven't been lifting or anything.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
