So let’s assume your ready to date and you decide you are starting a clean slate and you will answer all questions honestly with the person you are dating. It comes up during the date that you were just intimate with your STBXH 3 months ago. How do you think they will respond to this statement?
No idea, but I'm not ready for serious dating. I'm just talking about going out for coffee, etc.
If my s past came up, that would be awkward for me until I really got to know someone. If/when things got serious - and they had an issue with how I got through a D after 24 years, I guess that would probably be a thing for me.
I did the best I could given my situation. I've learned from it, but I won't be with anyone who picks it apart. They should get to know where I am today - If they were that concerned, I'd probably say they need to look elsewhere.
ME47 XH44, S28 S24 S19
8/17-BD IHS: 1/17-2/19 D FILED (ME): 7/19 D FINAL: 10/20 M23 T25 OW CONFIRMED: 01/21
Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
