You need to learn the dynamics of NGS. There is nothing wrong with being kind/nice but we (includes me) tend to, as nice guys, avoid conflicts and not enforce boundaries. We downplay our own wants and needs for others. This reduces your value and over time reduce respect from S.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021
