H just popped in. Seems he is living in his "other" place now. An Airbnb. I was friendly, but I walked away first. He was friendly too. It's possible that was where he has been his whole time on vacation. I have no way of knowing...and not asking.
Me 52, H 56 T10 M7, 2nd MR for both 2 Step Sons (19 and 21) BD: Fall 2020 D finalized: July 2022 XH Married AP soon after D day.