@LH19 / @Sandi2 and others: how is this (a correspondence from yesterday)
Her: Hey, I need to get a filling on wednesday from 10-12. I'll be gone 15 min on either end. Will you be available to hang with P? H isn't but I thought I'd check with you before I start calling other sitters.
Me: Good morning-I imagine that is going to be a big relief for you to get that finally taken care of, unfortunately though I can’t watch her during those hours tho. I think M hours may have changed for the better so you can ask her.
I really get the feeling she doesn't have a whole lot of respect for me. She'll barely even look at me when I see her and hardly ever says good bye when we do daughter drop offs (but that was always a pattern from her anyway)
